<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4946994485063797242</id><updated>2011-08-02T17:50:16.062-04:00</updated><category term='all the single ladies'/><category term='The Douchebag'/><category term='love'/><category term='clubbing'/><category term='online dating'/><category term='divorce'/><title type='text'>Single, Not Stupid</title><subtitle type='html'>Just another single gal wading through the &lt;br&gt;murky and treacherous waters of dating...</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4946994485063797242/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>LaFemmeSimple</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CpTXgDqLXoQ/SvzUiYDG2eI/AAAAAAAAANQ/_EdybpCk-i0/S220/logo2.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>5</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4946994485063797242.post-6227184025872778802</id><published>2010-01-18T22:54:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2010-01-18T23:01:30.850-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='online dating'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='love'/><title type='text'>Love...actually?</title><summary type='text'>Still seeing him. I wish I could see him every day, though that would probably be a very.bad.idea as we tend to stay up until all hours of the night. He's a stellar guy. He makes me laugh, he makes me feel sexy, he makes me realize I *DO* still have a heart. I could write pages upon pages about how he makes me feel but all I need to say is: he rocks.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/feeds/6227184025872778802/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/2010/01/loveactually.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4946994485063797242/posts/default/6227184025872778802'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4946994485063797242/posts/default/6227184025872778802'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/2010/01/loveactually.html' title='Love...actually?'/><author><name>LaFemmeSimple</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CpTXgDqLXoQ/SvzUiYDG2eI/AAAAAAAAANQ/_EdybpCk-i0/S220/logo2.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4946994485063797242.post-4023300783380626640</id><published>2009-12-07T14:15:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-07T14:23:36.473-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='online dating'/><title type='text'>About that date...</title><summary type='text'>So I went on the date. I turned into a ball of nerves about 30 minutes before meeting him. We txt'd back and forth as I tried to find a parking spot. I went a different entrance and embarrassed myself a little with "O hai! I back here!"First impressions always amuse me. I went in with a certain...expectation. He completely defied said expectation and I was pleasantly surprised. Cute! Very cute!</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/feeds/4023300783380626640/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/2009/12/about-that-date.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4946994485063797242/posts/default/4023300783380626640'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4946994485063797242/posts/default/4023300783380626640'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/2009/12/about-that-date.html' title='About that date...'/><author><name>LaFemmeSimple</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CpTXgDqLXoQ/SvzUiYDG2eI/AAAAAAAAANQ/_EdybpCk-i0/S220/logo2.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4946994485063797242.post-2087915168132784022</id><published>2009-11-20T00:17:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-20T00:25:43.918-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='online dating'/><title type='text'>Looky, Looky I gots a Date..y</title><summary type='text'>It's been a while since I went on a date. Amazingly, this is a self-inflicted choice. I had an interesting summer which didn't really end on a good note, so I took a step back and made myself both physically and emotionally unavailable. Sad little life eh?Over the past few weeks I've been...bored. Being a dating martyr is fun and all, it's saved me a lot of wasted time and energy, but a gal needs</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/feeds/2087915168132784022/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/2009/11/looky-looky-i-gots-datey.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4946994485063797242/posts/default/2087915168132784022'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4946994485063797242/posts/default/2087915168132784022'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/2009/11/looky-looky-i-gots-datey.html' title='Looky, Looky I gots a Date..y'/><author><name>LaFemmeSimple</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CpTXgDqLXoQ/SvzUiYDG2eI/AAAAAAAAANQ/_EdybpCk-i0/S220/logo2.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4946994485063797242.post-3796441096075639434</id><published>2009-11-14T17:49:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-14T18:04:47.087-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='clubbing'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='all the single ladies'/><title type='text'>Get into the groove</title><summary type='text'>Do you know Jami? She has this fabulous "little" (ha ha, little as in thousands and thousands of hits each month..bitch!) website. I highly recommend it if you are A: in need of entertainment and B: need to feel a little better about yourself.When I noticed Jami and I hung out in the same city, I emailed her and thus a beeeyootiful friendship started to form. Well, we kind of Facebook stalk one </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/feeds/3796441096075639434/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/2009/11/get-into-groove.html#comment-form' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4946994485063797242/posts/default/3796441096075639434'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4946994485063797242/posts/default/3796441096075639434'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/2009/11/get-into-groove.html' title='Get into the groove'/><author><name>LaFemmeSimple</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CpTXgDqLXoQ/SvzUiYDG2eI/AAAAAAAAANQ/_EdybpCk-i0/S220/logo2.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4946994485063797242.post-4290564482197032632</id><published>2009-11-12T22:43:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2009-11-13T00:02:23.406-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='The Douchebag'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='divorce'/><title type='text'>Soooo...done?</title><summary type='text'>I was married once. It wasn't pretty. When I tell people my story the #1 question I get asked is, "Why the hell did you stay so long?" and I don't really have an answer for that.We were happy once, maybe. I'm pretty sure. The longer I am away from him, the fuzzier my memories of that life become. Our first official married fight happened 2 days into our honeymoon. It was only the first of many, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/feeds/4290564482197032632/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/2009/11/soooodone.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4946994485063797242/posts/default/4290564482197032632'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4946994485063797242/posts/default/4290564482197032632'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://singlenotstupid.blogspot.com/2009/11/soooodone.html' title='Soooo...done?'/><author><name>LaFemmeSimple</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_CpTXgDqLXoQ/SvzUiYDG2eI/AAAAAAAAANQ/_EdybpCk-i0/S220/logo2.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
